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To Will? Or to Will Not?

My friend Kenar, just died of cancer.

She often said, “I have cancer, I choose to do nothing. Cancer may kill me, but it will NEVER take away my freedom to be alive.” As I type such words, I can only imagine how many stomachs may churn, because this choice is NOT how we have been taught to exercise our ‘treatment’ options. If you are ready to pounce on me for posting this, or believe Kenar’s decision to be irresponsible, or disturbing, I invite you to read www.mumsnothavingchemo.com “Q&A with Phillip Day.”

To Will? Or to Will Not?
Here is Kenar’s story:

She was only 36. I only met her a little over a year ago. She became one of my closest friends in Los Angeles. She came to me for what I thought was help except, at the time I failed to understand that it was support, not help that she was seeking… So kept offering her cancer treatment options; I could get her an appointment with Dr. Simone in Boston, or Dr. Burzinski in Texas. When she went to Turkey for closure, I urged her to try apricot pits,as I remembered a powerful conversation with a speaker at the Health Freedom Expo, about how her usage of them cured her breast cancer. A mutual friend had an infa-red sauna and I sent her the mumsnothavingchemo link about the infa- red sauna cancer treatment. I told her about Laura Bond and “mum’ and felt www.mumsnothavingchecmo.com would help her to know that she had options. Kenar read the blogs weekly, she was open to organic juice and vitamin C injections but never did anything. At my urging she bought Seth David Chernoff’s cancer book, and Vaishali’s book “You Are What You Love,” and always thanked me for my kindness and friendship…

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